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Will The Real Quincy Douchebag Please Stand Up?

9 Jan

I heard from a friend last week that there was this new Facebook called “Quincy Douchebags” in which the administrator of the page and friends of the page post pictures of people from Quincy and bash them in the comment section. It’s difficult to ignore something with the word “douchebag” in the title. But trust, you should ignore it. One example of a post from the page was a picture of a girl with a caption that read “Junkie douchebag”. Nothing like anonymously creating a Facebook to demonize and publicly ridicule someone who may or may not be battling addiction – either way, no one’s business. Another example: people posting half naked photos of girls and criticizing their bodies. Disgusting. If that were me, I would bring it to the police. And it’s gone so far that there are currently retaliation pages that post pictures of women with their kids (Quincy Swine or some shit equally tasteful). Nice.

I’m not one to call out cyber bullying. Come on, I have this section of my blog called “Trashy Status of the Week”. But to steal someone’s pictures/information online and reveal their identity in a mean-spirited forum, then block the person so they cannot defend themselves? GIVING OUT THESE PEOPLES’ ADDRESSES AND ENCOURAGING PEOPLE TO ATTACK THEM!? A little bit one flew over the cuckoo’s nest, no? I pray that the people who participate in this adult trash-fest don’t have children. I wonder, would their kids be proud that mommy slut shames someone on the internet because she is jealous? I’m sure they’d never admit to being jealous, (OH GURL, PLEASE!) but their actions prove otherwise. Taking the time out to post someone’s picture and start bashing them? Jealousy. Fo sho.

We, as women, need to stick up for each other. If we don’t stand up for and respect each other, how can we expect men to do it?! Let’s play nice and stop taking tips from Brandi Glanville and Leanne Rimes! To all the women (and men) whose pictures and personal life were posted on one of these pages, try not to reduce your sense of worth to what anonymous internet trolls say. They are the insecure ones who hide behind their computers, afraid to come forward and identify themselves. You obviously have some kind of power over them for them to be so invested in you. Hold your head high and don’t you dare think about them! images

So will the real Quincy Douchebag please stand up? Reveal yourself or forever be a pathetic lowlife who lives behind a computer screen. Or just be a decent human being and delete the page. No one will even remember it existed in roughly 1.5 weeks and you can fade back into obscurity. Make Quincy a better place and leave the evil over the Fore River bridge…in Weymouth (I kid, Weymouth is aight).

Namaste.

*Disclaimer: I did not write this out of bitterness because my picture was posted on Quincy Douchebag’s page, nor do I have friends whose pictures were posted. Although, I am sure my picture could very well be plastered onto their wall within 3 seconds of posting this, as this person seems to be relentless/brutal. I just wrote this to call out the trashiness of the behavior these people are exhibiting. It just fuels the stereotypes every other town has about Quincy girls. When I was in high school, if a girl hooked up with a boy I was dating, I would just sing “Put It In Your Mouth” softly when I walked by her (whatever happened to face to face bullying?! This cyber shit is pussy! I kid). And since I am out of high school, I wish I could tell my high school self that the mature thing to do would be to dump the loser and move on in classy way without attacking anyone. Posting someone’s name/picture on a public forum to degrade them is cruel and sickening. Not sure why I even brought up high school, as these seem to be full grown adults, but hey, some people lack class. Am I right? Not starting a war with you, Quincy Douchebags. But can we try to be decent? Jeez, this “disclaimer” turned more into an unnecessarily long, tangent-infested paragraph, huh?

PS: Listen to “Put it in Your Mouth” now. It’s the most disturbing and gross song ever. I can’t believe I ever dead seriously listened to it. Seriously, like what?! El oh el.

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5 Responses to “Will The Real Quincy Douchebag Please Stand Up?”

  1. pat January 9, 2014 at 6:25 am #

    the pages are really pathetic and now they are posting pictures with peoples children..its gotten way out of control. the douchebags page was set up by crystal melanson… i am not sure who set up the other pages but its ridiculous… i wish i had have of their free time seriously …

  2. Pamc January 9, 2014 at 8:32 am #

    Glad you posted ab it. It’s disturbing how relentlessly cruel people can be. I recently randomly found out some stranger/pyscho who lives in Germany posted slanderous things about me, posted pictures of my mom & sisters, because they disliked a comment (one short sentence) that I left on a link shared by a Public FB page. I found out who he is bc there is a disturbing Buzzfeed story on him. Beyond creepy.

  3. Antonio Viello January 9, 2014 at 6:45 pm #

    No offense but your first mistake was thinking the Quincy Police would ever care about anything other than getting paid to do nothing. My girlfriend was mugged in broad daylight a block from the courthouse and they demeaned and belittled us for hours trying to talk us out of filling a report. It took us 4 hours just to get them to write down that it actually took place. They do not care about anyone but their own.

    • Molly January 9, 2014 at 7:05 pm #

      That is AWFUL. I hope she is okay!

  4. Jam January 9, 2014 at 10:51 pm #

    Molly,
    Thank you so much for your post. As the mother of one of Quincy Douchebags victims I know first hand how upsetting it is to watch the effect these inferior cowards have on their victims. I raised my family in this wonderful city and it saddens me to see how easy it is for trashy people to bring it down. More young people should take a stand to get this site off of Facebook and stand proud of our great city. You’re the best!!

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